There is a chemical in a girls’ brain is released only two different times in her life, when she has sex, and when she breast feeds her baby. This chemical emotionally connects her to another person for the rest of her life. Us guys? We only release this chemical when we bond with our children. So if you think sex is a game and go around fucking as many girls as you want, remember that you can mentally mess this girl up for the rest of her life. If you’re still friends afterwards then whatever, but she will always feel some sort of feeling for you, just because of the chemical.
It’s called Oxytocin, it’s actually released when a woman gives birth as well. But this is so true… sex is more than just a game, and this is a clear reason that explains why humans were only created to have sex with just one person. Doing it with multiple people will have a very strong negative effect on your relationship with the person you want to be with for the rest of your life. I wish more kids knew about this… not that this should be your only motive not to have sex before marriage, but it is one of the most important.
Everyone should know this.
Okay, lets start with this: oxytocin is released in both sexes, not just females. The reason females have emotional lingering is because the oxytocin is released over a slower period of time than males. However, this does not justify being monogamous. This also does not translate over people who cannot be grouped as simply male or female. Oxytocin is also released during childbirth, times of anxiety, time of increased heart rate, breast feeding and other activities. And if you really want to talk about its relationship to monogamy then it should also be included that most hormones and emotions triggered in relationships end after the first six months, and those that are still left usually wear off (aka your body adapts) after two years.
Yeah people still get the butterfly feeling and they still love their spouse after 20 years. I get that. I support that. If you want to work on a relationship go for it. But enforced abstinence by misusing information about one chemical its why I want to shake society by the shoulders and scream into its face. This is why marriages are falling down the drain because people think if they rush into a marriage and experience this induced joy then it will be happily ever after. That’s not always the case. This doesn’t include what happens when the relationship falls a part, or other factors that fall into having sex.
I hate our sex education system. I loathe it. It’s destroying one of the most basic bodily functions and putting a horrible horrible stigma on it.
Gimme a fucking break. I find the original post to be insulting to my gender. There are plenty of us who can bang many a men and not ever think about him again. We’re not weak, pathetic creatures that get a dick inside us and get all emotionally attached and wanna get married and have a million babies with the guy. Contrary to popular belief, there’s a lot of us that like having sex because we like sex.
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